Maintaining Hope in the Face of Adversity

Oley Washington Jr. has been through a lot. From serving in the military during the Vietnam war to being attacked by protesters during his release—there is no doubt that his ordeal requires true grit to get through the experience.

In the latter instance, the events of the attack caused him to develop amnesia, where he has forgotten his past, his identity, and the pellets his father entrusted to him. With no recollections of where he was going, he eventually became homeless—living off dumpster diving and staying in worn areas.

Nevertheless, Oley survived. While his inner strength is admirable, the kindness of strangers also enabled him a chance to restore his memories. Both Haywood and Lilly Runyan had offered him compassion at different parts of his life—treating him more of a person than a societal inconvenience. I do not doubt that without their assistance, it would take Oley longer to regain his memories—maybe not even at all! Fortunately for Oley, he had another shot at living his best life and accepted that without looking back.

Aside from inner strength, the help of others can also provide us the power to keep living even if life gets hard. After all, we become closer when we share our burdens, problems, and resources. Such actions also lead us to develop a sense of community and make life better for everyone around us. A loving friendship is one of the best parts of life. As you read through the book, you will not doubt that genuine companionship can foster in even the strangest circumstances.

With all that in mind, if you know someone who makes your life a little better and has been there for you, make sure to drop them a call or message to let them know you appreciate them. After all, life is short, and we only get older as time goes by.

by Carl Kegerreis, author of the book, I Wish I Had Those Gasoline Pellets 

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Notes: Carl and Sandy were married 58 years and three months before she passed away on 3/1/21, from Alzheimer's disease. All proceeds from this book will be sent to Alzheimer's research in memory of Sandy. Also if you would like to donate in memory of a loved one, send your donation to Alzheimer's disease research, 22512 Gateway Center Drive, Clarksburg, MD.  20871.