How Family Can Provide Support to Veteran Relatives

Many people often feel relieved once they hear the news that their loved ones are returning from service. While this is a moment to celebrate, family members should also be aware of the readjustment period their veteran relative will face soon. Here are some tips that you can offer to make their readjustment period easier:

·   Offer them a place to stay. Veterans make up a large portion of individuals who end up homeless. You can reduce this risk by offering a room to your loved one. If you can't live with them, consider connecting them to a place near your home so you can visit them often.

·  Allow them time to adjust to a new routine. Many soldiers undergo a rigid schedule during training and combat. Once they return to their private lives, they may find it difficult to relate to and understand what used to be routine for them. When this happens, offer patience and give them time to get used to their new environment.

·  Connect them with job opportunities. Former soldiers who are relatively young may have difficulty finding new job opportunities. You can offer assistance by connecting them to people you know in hiring or link them to veteran job placement programs online.

·  Avoid probing questions. Family members who are ecstatic that their loved ones are returning may ask invasive questions at the height of their excitement. While that is understandable, it can also be intrusive, especially if your veteran relative is still not ready to talk about their time overseas.

Reconnecting with loved ones is one of the reasons why soldiers keep fighting. As they risk their lives for a cause, civilian members can also do their part by ensuring their return is as welcoming as possible. For more help and advice, consider contacting your local veteran support groups. Good luck!

by Carl Kegerreis